Avoiding the Big Blowups (James 1:19-21)

   James, the writer of the book that bares his name offers five steps toward overcoming anger:

1. Be slow to speak (v.19).  Weigh your words carefully (Proverbs 17:28 and 29:20)
2. Be quick to listen (v.19).  Avoid erupting into anger.  Assume the posture of a listener (Proverbs 18:13).
3. Be slow to anger (vv.19, 20).  No amount of yelling at my (our) children will turn them into the righteous young people I (we) long for theem to be.
4. Get rid of all moral filth and evil (v.21).  When distracted by sin we cannot dedicate ourselves to controlling our anger.
5. Humbly accept the Word of God (v.21).  Submit to the Word of God as the final authority and guide for your life.

CONCLUSION:  What If I do blow up?  Admit it, ask for God's help, and confess to the people you hurt.   (Taken from a sermon by Reverend Mark Hollis)